Elopement planning essentials are often overlooked because couples expect things to cost less, take less time to plan, and for venues not to be as hard to find. 

I see it all the time… couples assume that elopement planning is simple because they’re skipping the big wedding. 

And while, yes, eloping can be more intimate, stress-free, and meaningful, there’s one thing that often gets overlooked:

Planning an elopement still takes strategy, structure, and the right information. 

After years of photographing and guiding couples through the elopement process, I’ve seen what works (and what causes unnecessary stress, regret, and last-minute panic).

And here’s the big truth: Most couples don’t realize these 3 essential pieces make all the difference.

Elopement tips for Stress-free Elopement Planning

1. A Location Plan That’s More Than Just a Pretty View

Most couples pick a location based on Instagram photos, but they don’t think about:
✔ How crowded it will be (imagine saying your vows with 30 tourists watching)
✔ Whether it requires a permit (hello, unexpected paperwork)
✔ How easy it is to access (because hiking in a wedding dress isn’t for everyone)

What works instead? Choosing a location that balances beauty, privacy, accessibility, and logistics, so it’s not just stunning, but stress-free.

2. A Timeline That Actually Lets You Be Present

Most people think “elopement = no schedule,” but here’s what they are missing: without a structured timeline, things fall apart. Cue anxiety.
✔ Will you have enough time for dreamy golden-hour photos?
✔ What about getting-ready moments, travel time, and adventure stops?
✔ How do you avoid rushing through your vows or feeling like the day flew by?

What works instead? A realistic, flowing timeline that gives you space to soak in every moment, without feeling rushed or exhausted.

3. A Budget That Doesn’t Leave You Guessing

Couples often think eloping is “cheap” until they realize… there’s still a real cost involved. Vendor travel fees if they’re not local, accommodations, post-elopement celebrations—it all adds up fast.
✔ How much should you actually budget?
✔ Where should you spend vs. save?
✔ What hidden costs catch most couples by surprise?

What works instead? A clear, realistic budget plan that ensures you invest in the right things, so your elopement feels intentional, not stressful.

So here’s the real question!

Are you planning your elopement with all three of these essentials in mind? Or are you still wondering if you’re missing something important?

If any of this hits home for you, let me know which of these 3 essentials feels like the biggest challenge for you. I’d love to hear where you’re at in the planning process!